How are your Tantra sessions different from other experiences?

Every Tantra Practitioner has his or her own understanding of what Tantra is. Therefore, there is no one session the same. I view Tantra as a very sacred adventure involving a merging of the body, heart and spiritual aspects of life. The sessions I offer are about the journey rather than the destination. I aim to guide you in the most authentic and loving way so there is no "goal" in mind, rather it's about surrendering into a deep and nourishing relaxation and sensuality. I prepare the space in a way that is peaceful, nurturing and healing, with the experience of bliss and nourishment as a focus. Connection is always part of the sessions as well as activation of sensuality and the energy of the body through tantric techniques. Often there is a feeling of deep relaxation and aliveness at the same time, with sensations that can be both subtle and very powerful throughout the body. The sessions may have some similarities to other experiences (e.g. tantric breathing) however they will be different because they are progressive and therefore a refined form of Tantra. The sessions are also based on my own background and experience. I feel it is most beneficial to build on a stable foundation first. Each session prepares you to experience the the next healing deeper and more profoundly, however, it is not a race. It is not about how fast we get there, rather, how much we surrender to the moment and surrender within ourselves. This foundation is strengthened the deeper one goes into the realm of Tantra.

How do I need to prepare for a session?

Firstly, bookings are essential. Please honor your appointment. Although unforeseen circumstances can occur in life, if you are unable to make it, it is appreciated that some notice is given. (24hrs if possible).
You may want to consider caring for your body before the session (at least 24hrs is recommended). Cleansing from any heavy foods or toxic substances (e.g. alcohol, etc) for at least 1 day prior is advantageous and drink plenty of water.
Do the best you can at letting go of any expectations as much as possible - The Western culture teaches some limited beliefs about sexuality. There is a lot of misunderstanding around what Tantra is (please read What is Tantra for more information). It is about the journey not the destination!

Do you experience pleasure in the session and do you allow touching?

Tantric healing to me is a passion so I receive great pleasure from being a conduit for the Goddess. I receive pleasure by giving pleasure and witnessing you experience your own. As a Tantra Goddess, the divine feminine energies flow through me and are fully present in the moments we share. Shakti (divine feminine) energies are like an ocean, flowing and moving in a dance within and between us, initiating healing and nourishment. My tantric nature is fully active when I am in this space with you, in order to encourage the divine masculine and divine feminine energies to emerge and flourish.
The foundation sessions are primarily about me giving to you as a Goddess, for you to receive the gift of healing and awakening to your own Tantric nature. The more you relax, the more the energy will flow and in this surrendered state there is more opportunity for you to receive the benefits. Often we can get caught up in 'doing' and forget to let go. It is difficult for some people to receive so this is the perfect opportunity to focus on your own pleasure in a completely different light.
​Once rapport, connection and trust is built, part of the experience can be learning how to give from a place of fullness.

Do you provide additional services?

While I respect other forms of expression, my sessions do not involve "sexual services". I offer a refined experience of Tantra where the sessions have the ability to transform sexuality into sensuality and an expanded, soulful experience. They are designed to give you an authentic experience. Tantra can be subtle, yet the deeper you move into this world, the more intense and powerful it can become. It can be life changing and shift your perspective on sensuality, relationships and life in general.

I'd like to know more about your Tantra temple

I prepare a sacred healing space that is designed for your comfort, ease and relaxation. It is private, clean and safe. Candlelight, soft music, sensual undertones are all created to transport us into a nourishing, ecstatic and blissful sanctuary.

What do I wear in the session?

A sarong is provided for your comfort. Towels are also used in the session for comfort and warmth.

What oils do you use?

I use massage crème that has a very slight natural scent. It is made with organic and natural ingredients and is perfect for sensitive skin. There are no essential oils added. The crème also has healing properties to relax the muscles and hydrate the skin.  I also use a subtle scented incense to cleanse the space.

​*For those who prefer oil, I use an unscented almond oil.

Personal Care

Please be mindful of your own hygiene (breath, body odor, etc). I am very conscientious about keeping the space very clean and take pride in my own self-care. Doing our best to be respectful of each other in an intimate space is important.

Mindfulness

I am very much about mutual respect. I put a lot of love, care and time into creating a beautiful healing space for you to experience. Please be respectful of the space, my time and me as the guide and Goddess. The experience will be far more enjoyable and blissful when we approach each other with consideration and mindfulness.

Are you available to meet outside the sessions?

As a professional practitioner and therapist, boundaries are very important especially in a Tantric space. I do not socialize outside of sessions.

Are unusual feelings or reactions normal during and after a session?

Yes, it is not unusual to experience unique and strong sensations in the body. Energy is being activated, released and moved. If there is an imbalance (in the body, emotions or spiritually) it can often appear in the session - although healing and transformation of energy can occur, please also be aware that these sessions are an on-going process. You may experience emotional releases (fear, anger, grief, joy, bliss, etc) during the session and possibly in between appointments.

Post appointment self-care

• Drink plenty of water.
• Allow yourself time and space for the experience of the session to integrate.
• Practice the Tantra techniques that you are guided through - the specific techniques shown to you can assist and increase your tantric experiences. Practicing will help your body and mind to let go of what you were taught, and embrace a new way of life. 
• Be patient, compassionate and loving towards yourself.
• Consider learning to Meditate or practice Yoga - this is an integral aspect of Tantra and there are many different types so find one that suits your style.
• You may find you feel more sensitive to energy and or emotions. Spend time in replenishing environments - connect to nature, eat well, exercises (yoga, etc).
• If there is a strong re-action to the session, please contact Lotus. Recommendations may be given at her discretion other than Tantra to support your circumstances.
• Enjoy!

Confidentiality

As a professional practitioner, privacy is standard professional business procedure. All sessions are confidential.